It was a challenge to say the least but I think I finally have it working.
Only three devices later! I bought one when I bought the laptop a few weeks ago and I got the guy in PC World to throw it in for free. (I love bargains!)
It was on the list of devices that were compatible and then I tried it and only a day later it was up on the site that it wasn't infact compatible at all!
Second bluetooth device, this one I went to Rathgar and bought myself. It came with a WIDCOMM driver CD so no need to go looking up drivers online.
This is the list for the wii compatible devices:http://wiibrew.org/wiki/List_of_Working_Bluetooth_Devices#Summary
It is GREAT, I couldn't do without it, I'd have gone through more if I didn't come across any that worked!
Finally, the best thing of all is the image below! This is a better result than last time!